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haha, that's exactly what I was gonna say
dont be a pansy, it's not that bad, I've had it done twice
dont be a pansy, it's not that bad, I've had it done twice
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I'm very sorry to hear about your dog Nathan. I'm sure it is a very close friend for many years. Unfortunately the hardest thing for us to do is to let go and an animal should not be left to suffer IMHO. God put us here to care for his creatures, but this also includes having compassion for them and knowing when to put them down. I'm sorry you have to go through with this and I wouldn't want to do what you will ultimately have to do.
You are not killing the dog. You are putting it out of its misery. I am sorry to say it has no soul, so being humane and putting it to sleep is not something that should weigh on your soul. You love your dog, but I personally don't think there is even a choice here.
With all that said. You do whats right for you. I just had to say my peace.
Very sorry.
You are not killing the dog. You are putting it out of its misery. I am sorry to say it has no soul, so being humane and putting it to sleep is not something that should weigh on your soul. You love your dog, but I personally don't think there is even a choice here.
With all that said. You do whats right for you. I just had to say my peace.
Very sorry.
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I have to make the decision by tonight whether to bring my dog home and let her die here, or take her in tomorrow and have her put down. Either way she's probably going to die. I just don't like the idea of intentionally killing something. No matter how "humane" it is, I'll still feel like I made the decision to kill my own dog for the rest of my life. I also don't want her to suffer either. I just really don't know what to do. I really don't want to deal with this right now.
I remember hearing a talk show at night years ago with a Vet as guest. She talked about this. She said 'your friend has been with you through good times and bad, they have relied on you through fun times and sick times. It is important to be there as they go to sleep'.
Wow. I'm cryin' as I type this... it was hard and though it was 13 yrs ago the wound is still there and pretty fresh. But there was no question that she was suffering and it was crucial that I be there as she quietly closed her eyes and went to sleep. God I love that dog. Moments like this are very difficult. But I learned through that period of time (lots of other life crap started piling on) that 'stare your fears down, and they wimp away!' And of course reliance on prayer. It actually became a defining moment for the battles that were coming...
Long live Smokie...
Wow. I'm cryin' as I type this... it was hard and though it was 13 yrs ago the wound is still there and pretty fresh. But there was no question that she was suffering and it was crucial that I be there as she quietly closed her eyes and went to sleep. God I love that dog. Moments like this are very difficult. But I learned through that period of time (lots of other life crap started piling on) that 'stare your fears down, and they wimp away!' And of course reliance on prayer. It actually became a defining moment for the battles that were coming...
Long live Smokie...
I've had the tragedy too. Here is Coco. He loved to lay near the Mustang. Still hard to talk about now, but he was laying in front of it one day back in August and I didn't see him there. Ran right over him. He's a big dog, and how I never felt it i'll never know. I was a mess. Even now when I drive away from anywhere I worry that there may be something around me.
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I'm very sorry to hear about your dog Nathan. I'm sure it is a very close friend for many years. Unfortunately the hardest thing for us to do is to let go and an animal should not be left to suffer IMHO. God put us here to care for his creatures, but this also includes having compassion for them and knowing when to put them down. I'm sorry you have to go through with this and I wouldn't want to do what you will ultimately have to do.
You are not killing the dog. You are putting it out of its misery. I am sorry to say it has no soul, so being humane and putting it to sleep is not something that should weigh on your soul. You love your dog, but I personally don't think there is even a choice here.
With all that said. You do whats right for you. I just had to say my peace.
Very sorry.
You are not killing the dog. You are putting it out of its misery. I am sorry to say it has no soul, so being humane and putting it to sleep is not something that should weigh on your soul. You love your dog, but I personally don't think there is even a choice here.
With all that said. You do whats right for you. I just had to say my peace.
Very sorry.
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She wanted to go outside when she came home so I took her out for a walk. She wanted to walk more and sniff and dig around but she just isn't strong enough. She can't go to the bathroom at all, and she's coughing up a lot of yellow stuff. I got to spend some time with her though, so I'm really glad I could do that.
She wanted to go outside when she came home so I took her out for a walk. She wanted to walk more and sniff and dig around but she just isn't strong enough. She can't go to the bathroom at all, and she's coughing up a lot of yellow stuff. I got to spend some time with her though, so I'm really glad I could do that.
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Nate, don't know if you saw my post yesterday.....
Sorry to hear about your friend Nathan. Maybe its time to have him/her put down so it doesn't suffer. A few years ago, I had to have a dog put down that I had for over 20 years. One of the hardest things I've ever had to do. It took me months to get over it, and I still think about him and all the enjoyment he brought my family.
Found this pic of the ol' boy....
He was just a mutt, some kind of terrier/beagle/??? mix. He was with us for over 20 years. My boy grew up with him from the time he was born until college. One of the most loyal, intelligent, comforting animals that ever lived. He gave us more laughs, smiles, and love than we could ever repay. In his last days he had become blind, and had arthritis so bad that we had to carry him down the steps to relieve himself. One day he was hurting so bad that you couldn't even touch him without him yelping out in pain. That was the last straw. As hard as it was, we took him to be put down by the vet that had treated him for 20 years. Within 10 seconds of the injection, he was in peace and no longer suffering, with us holding him. Say what you want, but I was a grown man and I cried so hard I could barely drive home. 20+ years is a long time to spend with someone, even if it is a dog (rather especially if it is a dog for people like me). I know exactly what you are going through. I grew up in a farming community, with a family of hunters. I never had it in me to kill one of God's creatures, and believe me, I caught a lot of **** for not hunting with the rest of them. I know it is necessary, but it was just never part of who I was, and I don't have any problem with them doing it, I just can't do it myself. I've been labeled as a ***** and every other thing you can think of because of it. I really don't give a ****. That is just who I am. Do what you need to do son, but from experience, I would suggest that you have your friend put down in a timely manner so he/she doesn't suffer. Be there with the dog so it is comfortable, and just remember that it will no longer be hurting. Just know that the dog would never want you to be in pain, and you should do the same for it.
Good luck Nate, we (me for sure) will be here for you buddy for anything you need. If you need to, feel free to contact me in private by any means. I'll do anything I can to help you out buddy.
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Sorry to hear about your friend Nathan. Maybe its time to have him/her put down so it doesn't suffer. A few years ago, I had to have a dog put down that I had for over 20 years. One of the hardest things I've ever had to do. It took me months to get over it, and I still think about him and all the enjoyment he brought my family.
He was just a mutt, some kind of terrier/beagle/??? mix. He was with us for over 20 years. My boy grew up with him from the time he was born until college. One of the most loyal, intelligent, comforting animals that ever lived. He gave us more laughs, smiles, and love than we could ever repay. In his last days he had become blind, and had arthritis so bad that we had to carry him down the steps to relieve himself. One day he was hurting so bad that you couldn't even touch him without him yelping out in pain. That was the last straw. As hard as it was, we took him to be put down by the vet that had treated him for 20 years. Within 10 seconds of the injection, he was in peace and no longer suffering, with us holding him. Say what you want, but I was a grown man and I cried so hard I could barely drive home. 20+ years is a long time to spend with someone, even if it is a dog (rather especially if it is a dog for people like me). I know exactly what you are going through. I grew up in a farming community, with a family of hunters. I never had it in me to kill one of God's creatures, and believe me, I caught a lot of **** for not hunting with the rest of them. I know it is necessary, but it was just never part of who I was, and I don't have any problem with them doing it, I just can't do it myself. I've been labeled as a ***** and every other thing you can think of because of it. I really don't give a ****. That is just who I am. Do what you need to do son, but from experience, I would suggest that you have your friend put down in a timely manner so he/she doesn't suffer. Be there with the dog so it is comfortable, and just remember that it will no longer be hurting. Just know that the dog would never want you to be in pain, and you should do the same for it.
Good luck Nate, we (me for sure) will be here for you buddy for anything you need. If you need to, feel free to contact me in private by any means. I'll do anything I can to help you out buddy.
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Thanks Lee. 20 years is a really long time for a dog, but that doesn't make it any easier when they go. I don't think most make it past 12. My dad's dog is 12 now, and she probably won't be around much longer either. Carmel is on pain meds, so hopefully she isn't in too much pain. I'm still gonna have to make a decision today though.
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Thanks Lee. 20 years is a really long time for a dog, but that doesn't make it any easier when they go. I don't think most make it past 12. My dad's dog is 12 now, and she probably won't be around much longer either. Carmel is on pain meds, so hopefully she isn't in too much pain. I'm still gonna have to make a decision today though.
It's not an easy one to make Nathan, but just know that all of us have you in our thoughts while you and your family go through this.
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Thanks Jim. It's good to know that I have such good friends on here.
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We're going to take her in a noon.
A friend posted this why they make us think we need junk lol
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She's in heaven now. I miss her so much.
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I have to make the decision by tonight whether to bring my dog home and let her die here, or take her in tomorrow and have her put down. Either way she's probably going to die. I just don't like the idea of intentionally killing something. No matter how "humane" it is, I'll still feel like I made the decision to kill my own dog for the rest of my life. I also don't want her to suffer either. I just really don't know what to do. I really don't want to deal with this right now.
I remember hearing a talk show at night years ago with a Vet as guest. She talked about this. She said 'your friend has been with you through good times and bad, they have relied on you through fun times and sick times. It is important to be there as they go to sleep'.
Wow. I'm cryin' as I type this... it was hard and though it was 13 yrs ago the wound is still there and pretty fresh. But there was no question that she was suffering and it was crucial that I be there as she quietly closed her eyes and went to sleep. God I love that dog. Moments like this are very difficult. But I learned through that period of time (lots of other life crap started piling on) that 'stare your fears down, and they wimp away!' And of course reliance on prayer. It actually became a defining moment for the battles that were coming...
Long live Smokie...
Wow. I'm cryin' as I type this... it was hard and though it was 13 yrs ago the wound is still there and pretty fresh. But there was no question that she was suffering and it was crucial that I be there as she quietly closed her eyes and went to sleep. God I love that dog. Moments like this are very difficult. But I learned through that period of time (lots of other life crap started piling on) that 'stare your fears down, and they wimp away!' And of course reliance on prayer. It actually became a defining moment for the battles that were coming...
Long live Smokie...
Man I know it is not the easiest decision to make. I had to make that same decision on July 4th 2008 when I had our old stallion put to sleep. He was 24 years old and he was family. He taught the wife and I more in the 4 years than anybody else did. Right before we called the vet out he was telling myself as well as the wife that it was time for him to go. We tried all we could to get him feeling better for 2 weeks at least but there wasnt anything else we could do. We know in our hearts that what we did was the right choice. We didnt want him to suffer thru the pain any longer. To this day it still brings tears to my eyes when I think of him.
I've had the tragedy too. Here is Coco. He loved to lay near the Mustang. Still hard to talk about now, but he was laying in front of it one day back in August and I didn't see him there. Ran right over him. He's a big dog, and how I never felt it i'll never know. I was a mess. Even now when I drive away from anywhere I worry that there may be something around me.
Just remember that you are doing what is best for her. I know it hurts you doing this but remember all the good times you had with her.
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You did the right thing. As hard as it was, it was still the right thing. I'm sad for you
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