Bought a set Xenon headlight replacement bulbs. They are rated at 100/95 watts. Originals are rated at 55/45. Only one light will come on at a time in high or low mode. Does any one know if the is an issue of these light drawing to much amps and is there a trick to making both work at the same time?

 

Those lights are eBay garbage. Be careful or they might melt your headlight housings.

100w lights are illegal in most states, I'll bet the SJB won't allow more than a certain amount of current draw to avoid usage of lights like yours.

Get HIDs. All the brightness (and more) and less probability of heat damaging your housings.