Talked it out, great. If you can keep the communication lines open, most problems will take care of themselves. We found that if we can stick together and communicate, we can overcome anything.

 

She sounds like she is 10. I would run and run fast. Sounds like you better.

 

Over half of all marriages fail.
Sounds to me like neither one of you are ready for marriage.

 

Warbird--------
Son, you need to get out of this relationship. as so many other writers have wrote, I agree with them. Forget the marriage, and live together until you see if things work out, in the meantime you may both agree to walk away with no legal issues of divorce. Son, she sounds like a Drama Queen, and will run those teary eyes, only to have you promise something you will regret and she will hold you to it. Man I have seen enough with women and ex's and just live with women now.
If pre-marriage is bad, post-wedding will go down hill real fast, especially when they want those babies. She will own your SOUL.
And like one writer stated, it cost him double, well guess what, I am in the same boat.
Hold off the marriage to see what happens.
Get the pet you want, your "PET PONY", lock her in your stable so those cats won't be crawling all over her and scratching the paint with those sandy paws.