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So, some of you advocate not throwing the shrieking kid off the plane? Interesting. Can't wait to see what you say after having one of those flights:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fs0cYJUqJys
And that from a man with 5 kids.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fs0cYJUqJys
And that from a man with 5 kids.
/"G'bye Jeffrey!!!"
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When my folks went on trips and I was a baby, I stayed home with family. If they really wanted to take me, we drove. When I cried in the restaurant, I was taken outside. When I wanted something in the store and started screaming, we went home. Eventually, I stopped because I learned through discipline. But when I didn't (since kids can be downright rotten at times) I was dealt with quickly and firmly.
No one is going to fault a parent for taking steps to maintain family decorum, and failing. I see moms desperately trying to quiet babies, and then eventually retreating. However, I think even the parents on this thread know that it's pretty freakin' obvious when someone is not even trying to quell a squalling child.![Wink](https://themustangsource.com/forums/images/smilies/wink.gif)
So instead of either lambasting the subject of this story, or parents here lashing out at those of us that "just don't understand" because we haven't procreated, let's ask the only question that really matters...what would you have suggested? It's easy for all of us to play armchair quarterback and either condemn the parents, or show empathy because "hey, kids will be kids, right?" and you've been in that situation.
To me, planes are special circumstances because everyone on that vehicle is essentially a hostage in this situation. They don't have the option of walking away from the source of the noise. Taking into consideration that the child was LOUD enough that passengers couldn't hear the instructions of the flight attendants, can we really blame Southwest for trying to ensure the comfort of the other passengers on the plane? Where do we draw the line? How much do we expect others to tolerate? Half the flight? The entire flight?
No one is going to fault a parent for taking steps to maintain family decorum, and failing. I see moms desperately trying to quiet babies, and then eventually retreating. However, I think even the parents on this thread know that it's pretty freakin' obvious when someone is not even trying to quell a squalling child.
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So instead of either lambasting the subject of this story, or parents here lashing out at those of us that "just don't understand" because we haven't procreated, let's ask the only question that really matters...what would you have suggested? It's easy for all of us to play armchair quarterback and either condemn the parents, or show empathy because "hey, kids will be kids, right?" and you've been in that situation.
To me, planes are special circumstances because everyone on that vehicle is essentially a hostage in this situation. They don't have the option of walking away from the source of the noise. Taking into consideration that the child was LOUD enough that passengers couldn't hear the instructions of the flight attendants, can we really blame Southwest for trying to ensure the comfort of the other passengers on the plane? Where do we draw the line? How much do we expect others to tolerate? Half the flight? The entire flight?
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Didn't watch the video (I'm at work), but honestly I don't advocate throwing a kid off of a plane unless they are totally out of control. Unfortunately, airplanes anymore are nothing more than a way to get from point A to point B. I typically bring earplugs for my flights. Nothing really bothers me. My skin has grown thicker than to get upset by a kid.
I have Bose QuietComfort noise-cancelling headphones, and the screams and cries of children can penetrate even the white noise. I'm not a heartless person, so yes, it is impossible for me to be at ease when someone - child or adult - is upset and crying. Even if I don't know them, it still upsets me...
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When my folks went on trips and I was a baby, I stayed home with family. If they really wanted to take me, we drove. When I cried in the restaurant, I was taken outside. When I wanted something in the store and started screaming, we went home. Eventually, I stopped because I learned through discipline. But when I didn't (since kids can be downright rotten at times) I was dealt with quickly and firmly.
No one is going to fault a parent for taking steps to maintain family decorum, and failing. I see moms desperately trying to quiet babies, and then eventually retreating. However, I think even the parents on this thread know that it's pretty freakin' obvious when someone is not even trying to quell a squalling child.![Wink](https://themustangsource.com/forums/images/smilies/wink.gif)
So instead of either lambasting the subject of this story, or parents here lashing out at those of us that "just don't understand" because we haven't procreated, let's ask the only question that really matters...what would you have suggested? It's easy for all of us to play armchair quarterback and either condemn the parents, or show empathy because "hey, kids will be kids, right?" and you've been in that situation.
To me, planes are special circumstances because everyone on that vehicle is essentially a hostage in this situation. They don't have the option of walking away from the source of the noise. Taking into consideration that the child was LOUD enough that passengers couldn't hear the instructions of the flight attendants, can we really blame Southwest for trying to ensure the comfort of the other passengers on the plane? Where do we draw the line? How much do we expect others to tolerate? Half the flight? The entire flight?
No one is going to fault a parent for taking steps to maintain family decorum, and failing. I see moms desperately trying to quiet babies, and then eventually retreating. However, I think even the parents on this thread know that it's pretty freakin' obvious when someone is not even trying to quell a squalling child.
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So instead of either lambasting the subject of this story, or parents here lashing out at those of us that "just don't understand" because we haven't procreated, let's ask the only question that really matters...what would you have suggested? It's easy for all of us to play armchair quarterback and either condemn the parents, or show empathy because "hey, kids will be kids, right?" and you've been in that situation.
To me, planes are special circumstances because everyone on that vehicle is essentially a hostage in this situation. They don't have the option of walking away from the source of the noise. Taking into consideration that the child was LOUD enough that passengers couldn't hear the instructions of the flight attendants, can we really blame Southwest for trying to ensure the comfort of the other passengers on the plane? Where do we draw the line? How much do we expect others to tolerate? Half the flight? The entire flight?
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Gotta be honest here...I know sometimes it can't be helped, but I wouldn't take my two year old on the airplane. It just wouldn't work. You can't confine them like that. They know when they are being confined and they will attempt to display their displeasure. I would say my kids are very well mannered, but we have gotten up and left at a restaurant, before service, because the child was obviously not gonna make it. When we do eat out we make sure they are hungry, they get some sort of food right away, and we get out as fast as we can. I won't subject someone to my kids screaming. Usually my kids scream out with happiness or out of excitement.
So just a few thoughts I didn't get from the article posted...
1. Did the kid really have to be flown? Again. Sometimes it is unavoidable. I understand.
2. Was the mother alone? Could the father have been there to help? Again. Maybe she's single. Maybe the father is in Afghanistan. Who knows. But two can be better than one.
3. Distract the child. I haven't flown in years, but hand held movie players used to work for us. A book. Anything.
4. A little compassion from the flight crew. But if the kid is flat out unruly, the kids got to get off the plane. Maybe she could have changed seats with someone.
5. Was the kid in a child safety seat or booster?I think they have to be right. Again not a good situation for a kid. The kid could be just flat out nervous and scared.
These things happen.
But for me personally...I wouldn't even attempt it. My screaming kid hurts my ears just as much as yours.
Maybe the pilot should have gotten on the intercom and said..
"Don't make me come back there!"
"I'll pull this plane right over."
So just a few thoughts I didn't get from the article posted...
1. Did the kid really have to be flown? Again. Sometimes it is unavoidable. I understand.
2. Was the mother alone? Could the father have been there to help? Again. Maybe she's single. Maybe the father is in Afghanistan. Who knows. But two can be better than one.
3. Distract the child. I haven't flown in years, but hand held movie players used to work for us. A book. Anything.
4. A little compassion from the flight crew. But if the kid is flat out unruly, the kids got to get off the plane. Maybe she could have changed seats with someone.
5. Was the kid in a child safety seat or booster?I think they have to be right. Again not a good situation for a kid. The kid could be just flat out nervous and scared.
These things happen.
But for me personally...I wouldn't even attempt it. My screaming kid hurts my ears just as much as yours.
Maybe the pilot should have gotten on the intercom and said..
"Don't make me come back there!"
"I'll pull this plane right over."
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Yeah Gary, I agree. I've had Dominic on many flights, he's not even three and has been on more flights than most adults. Like I said, he's never been perfect, but he's never been a problem for more than 5 mins. Portable DVD players, coupled w/ The Wiggles DVD's, etc, work wonders. I think you see more and more people on planes w/ toddlers as society becomes more mobile and families separate. My wife's family is in Florida, we live in Ohio. It's not feasable to make that drive most times, and grandma and grandpa have to see their only grandchild, ya know?
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I completely understand John.
We are very fortunate to have the entire family within 60 minutes from us. And my parents next door. Though sometimes I wish I lived across country, if even for a week or two a year.
We are very fortunate to have the entire family within 60 minutes from us. And my parents next door. Though sometimes I wish I lived across country, if even for a week or two a year.
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But, back to topic - can't say for sure if that person on the plane even tried to calm her kid or not - didn't seem that way based on the article and her subsequent action against the carrier. That "me" attitude of suing the airline because she got inconvenienced is just selfish. Did she ever consider the inconvenience that the rest of the passengers were subjected to not only from her child acting up but also the from the resulting flight delay? And I don't know how she'd be able to stand the anger and ill will directed to her from the other passengers if they did remain on the flight... guess some people are just thick-skinned (or dense).
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