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Old Jul 17, 2013 | 02:00 AM
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Old Jul 17, 2013 | 02:07 AM
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Old Jul 17, 2013 | 05:57 PM
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People that don't take care of their stuff, this cart required a complete rebuild, I don't think they ever changed the oil the crank case was full of sludge, it smoked, and the rings were completely gone, sad thing is, it looks to be fairly new, and it had the Subaru 350cc, they should be happy though, we're giving it a 290cc head, providing a higher compression, should be better than it was, :sigh:
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Old Jul 18, 2013 | 10:36 AM
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My ex got engaged and didn't even tell our daughter! (Or me) I found out about it via FB yesterday. My daughter argued with me that "he's just mommy friend!" when I attempted to brace her for what's coming. My ex has been seeing this man for two months after meeting online. My daughter couldn't even remember his name.

Wait until this jackhole moves in. People just don't think anymore or they don't care about this impacts a child.

I'm sad that my daughter is now being thrown into this situation and she knows nothing about it.

Not sure if I should even react. My ex is known for a slue of revolving door men.
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Old Jul 18, 2013 | 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Getportfolio
My ex got engaged and didn't even tell our daughter! (Or me) I found out about it via FB yesterday. My daughter argued with me that "he's just mommy friend!" when I attempted to brace her for what's coming. My ex has been seeing this man for two months after meeting online. My daughter couldn't even remember his name.

Wait until this jackhole moves in. People just don't think anymore or they don't care about this impacts a child.

I'm sad that my daughter is now being thrown into this situation and she knows nothing about it.

Not sure if I should even react. My ex is known for a slue of revolving door men.
There really is no right answer. My ex wife is pregnant with some guys kid and not married. I didn't find out till she was 7 months along when I saw her. It made sense as to why she would hide when I picked up my son or dropped him off. I have the same fears for my sons well being. I totally understand where you are coming from. I hope all turns out well for you.
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Old Jul 18, 2013 | 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Getportfolio
My ex got engaged and didn't even tell our daughter! (Or me) I found out about it via FB yesterday. My daughter argued with me that "he's just mommy friend!" when I attempted to brace her for what's coming. My ex has been seeing this man for two months after meeting online. My daughter couldn't even remember his name.

Wait until this jackhole moves in. People just don't think anymore or they don't care about this impacts a child.

I'm sad that my daughter is now being thrown into this situation and she knows nothing about it.

Not sure if I should even react. My ex is known for a slue of revolving door men.
I never understand what goes through people's minds. My husband's ex met some guy online (a few states away) and thought she was going to move their daughter out of state to move in with him......like that was ever going to happen, NOT! So obviously that didn't work out. Then she met another guy, shacked up with him and got pregnant. That didn't work out so he moved out and she started going out all the time and leaving the kids with babysitters. My husband finally convinced her that their daughter would be better off with us in a nice suburban neighborhood (instead of her apartment complex as a latch key kid), better schools and kids her own age to play with. That's been almost 12 years ago now and definitely turned out to be the best thing for their daughter

I hope everything works out for you!
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Old Jul 18, 2013 | 12:45 PM
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That's been almost 12 years ago now and definitely turned out to be the best thing for their daughter
Yeah it did
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Old Jul 18, 2013 | 01:59 PM
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I may just suffer from Daddy syndrome. My mind is racing and I'm ready to kick this little man's @ss for posting pictures of the two or so times he has met my daughter. In essence portraying himself to everyone as the savior from the "crappy real father."

Meanwhile, I think of the 45k that I spent in legal fees to get joint custody. I recall the police handcuffing me at the hospital the day my daughter was born. My ex spending my child support to party, boink losers and travel to see these losers, her fruitless lies in court, I remember enduring a battery of two years of psychological testing as this woman used her dads 401k to unsuccessfully prove me "unfit." I remember my computer, credit card and medical records, subpoenaed because of false allegations. I recall 8 hour depositions, cross examinations in court with lawyers that could bring you to tears. I remember failed mediation. I remember my ex paying people to testify against me... Including my kindergarten teacher and first girlfriend. I remember going to pick up my daughter and her not being there. I remember putting the toys in the trunk in tears on those days. I remember my ex calling CPS on my new wife. I remember my ex trying to prove my daughter was autistic to collect a disability check. I remember two years sleepless nights worrying and working two jobs to pay my attorney and support my daughter. I remember selling my belongings to pay my attorney.

I remember the judge telling me "that he has seen many fathers in court but none as dedicated as me." I remember smiling as he dismissed all of "her" testimony and told me that I was a good father.. A "real" father in today's world.

This new man may attempt to try and assume the role of daddy because of my exs lies. However, he has some big shoes to fill. Shoes he will never step into unless I'm dead.

If you have children, appreciate the gift. If you have a GOOD husband or wife, appreciate that gift as well. Take it from someone who knows. Thank God everyday for them. Never take it for granted.
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Old Jul 18, 2013 | 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Getportfolio
I may just suffer from Daddy syndrome. My mind is racing and I'm ready to kick this little man's @ss for posting pictures of the two or so times he has met my daughter. In essence portraying himself to everyone as the savior from the "crappy real father."

Meanwhile, I think of the 45k that I spent in legal fees to get joint custody. I recall the police handcuffing me at the hospital the day my daughter was born. My ex spending my child support to party, boink losers and travel to see these losers, her fruitless lies in court, I remember enduring a battery of two years of psychological testing as this woman used her dads 401k to unsuccessfully prove me "unfit." I remember my computer, credit card and medical records, subpoenaed because of false allegations. I recall 8 hour depositions, cross examinations in court with lawyers that could bring you to tears. I remember failed mediation. I remember my ex paying people to testify against me... Including my kindergarten teacher and first girlfriend. I remember going to pick up my daughter and her not being there. I remember putting the toys in the trunk in tears on those days. I remember my ex calling CPS on my new wife. I remember my ex trying to prove my daughter was autistic to collect a disability check. I remember two years sleepless nights worrying and working two jobs to pay my attorney and support my daughter. I remember selling my belongings to pay my attorney.

I remember the judge telling me "that he has seen many fathers in court but none as dedicated as me." I remember smiling as he dismissed all of "her" testimony and told me that I was a good father.. A "real" father in today's world.

This new man may attempt to try and assume the role of daddy because of my exs lies. However, he has some big shoes to fill. Shoes he will never step into unless I'm dead.

If you have children, appreciate the gift. If you have a GOOD husband or wife, appreciate that gift as well. Take it from someone who knows. Thank God everyday for them. Never take it for granted.
You want me to help you kick some @$$?
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Old Jul 18, 2013 | 02:25 PM
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Haha. I'd so take you up on it. Lol I got this one though.
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Old Jul 18, 2013 | 08:04 PM
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Yep my ex kicked me out and moved her unemployed boyfriend in three months later! My two young daughters don't have a very good role model to see everyday. And there ain't **** I can do about it!!! I just have to be the best father when I have them and just hope that they can keep their heads on straight. Hopefully someday they'll figure out that Dad wasn't so bad after all! :-)
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Old Jul 18, 2013 | 08:09 PM
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Holy ****!

There but for the grace of God...
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Old Jul 19, 2013 | 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Mustang Freak
Yep my ex kicked me out and moved her unemployed boyfriend in three months later! My two young daughters don't have a very good role model to see everyday. And there ain't **** I can do about it!!! I just have to be the best father when I have them and just hope that they can keep their heads on straight. Hopefully someday they'll figure out that Dad wasn't so bad after all! :-)
I feel you my friend. I just found out this new guy is an ex alcoholic. I need to have a man to man with him ASAP.

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Old Jul 21, 2013 | 07:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Getportfolio
I may just suffer from Daddy syndrome. My mind is racing and I'm ready to kick this little man's @ss for posting pictures of the two or so times he has met my daughter. In essence portraying himself to everyone as the savior from the "crappy real father."

Meanwhile, I think of the 45k that I spent in legal fees to get joint custody. I recall the police handcuffing me at the hospital the day my daughter was born. My ex spending my child support to party, boink losers and travel to see these losers, her fruitless lies in court, I remember enduring a battery of two years of psychological testing as this woman used her dads 401k to unsuccessfully prove me "unfit." I remember my computer, credit card and medical records, subpoenaed because of false allegations. I recall 8 hour depositions, cross examinations in court with lawyers that could bring you to tears. I remember failed mediation. I remember my ex paying people to testify against me... Including my kindergarten teacher and first girlfriend. I remember going to pick up my daughter and her not being there. I remember putting the toys in the trunk in tears on those days. I remember my ex calling CPS on my new wife. I remember my ex trying to prove my daughter was autistic to collect a disability check. I remember two years sleepless nights worrying and working two jobs to pay my attorney and support my daughter. I remember selling my belongings to pay my attorney.

I remember the judge telling me "that he has seen many fathers in court but none as dedicated as me." I remember smiling as he dismissed all of "her" testimony and told me that I was a good father.. A "real" father in today's world.

This new man may attempt to try and assume the role of daddy because of my exs lies. However, he has some big shoes to fill. Shoes he will never step into unless I'm dead.

If you have children, appreciate the gift. If you have a GOOD husband or wife, appreciate that gift as well. Take it from someone who knows. Thank God everyday for them. Never take it for granted.
Originally Posted by Mustang Freak
Yep my ex kicked me out and moved her unemployed boyfriend in three months later! My two young daughters don't have a very good role model to see everyday. And there ain't **** I can do about it!!! I just have to be the best father when I have them and just hope that they can keep their heads on straight. Hopefully someday they'll figure out that Dad wasn't so bad after all! :-)
Man, that sucks.
I'm sure your kids know what good fathers you guys are! Keep your heads up and good luck!
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Old Jul 21, 2013 | 08:30 PM
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There's always two sides to every story. Just saying.
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Old Jul 21, 2013 | 08:36 PM
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Actually three sides...
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Old Jul 21, 2013 | 09:08 PM
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Actually three sides...
True. Forgot about the third. Dang.
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Old Jul 21, 2013 | 09:13 PM
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I haven't seen my car since Wednesday...
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Old Jul 21, 2013 | 10:30 PM
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I haven't seen my car since Wednesday...
I know you're having problems with it. What's wrong with it?
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Old Jul 22, 2013 | 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted by AlsCobra

I know you're having problems with it. What's wrong with it?
It's not in the shop, it's just at my house, I've been at the beach, and couldn't take it with me, I need to have it looked at though...
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